Lessons I've learned lately.
Life.
It amazes me but sometimes, i find it cruel.
Experience itself is a lesson.
1.Even a fish would stay out of trouble if it will keep
its mouth shut.~ Anon. From the older sayings, less talk,
fewer mistakes.As simple as black and white.
There'd be times I'm so involved in a conversation, that
without my idea, its already turning into a gossip. I
must remind myself, that i have no right to put the
person down by saying not good things about the person
especially if i am not so sure about it. And, even if its
true, i am in no position to judge anyone.
2. I myself believe in the sayings that no man is an
island. Literally per SE, it is impossible to live alone
in this whole wide universe. We were born to interact, to
communicate, and to share our lives with people. But i
have learned recently that we must not depend on people
around us. Your friends may be there for you at times,
but not all the time. You may be living under the same
roof with your family, but they don't know exactly what
you are going through.You may be surrounded by people,
but there'd be times that its as if the world has turn
its back against
you.Friends will somehow get tired on you. And during
those times, it will always be between you and God. And
at the end of the day, it will always be between you and
the Lord.
3.Patience is a virtue.Easier said than done. My sister
told me i cant have a baby.Simply because according to
her, i got no patience. *sigh* so much for the thought
that i am the most patient amongst us in the sisterhood
of five. I also learned recently that the virtue of
patience is a matter of mind over matters. Uh. oh,, did i
just sound so complicated? hahahaaha, Kidding aside, i so
admire those people who has a patience like the size of
half the globe. Maybe it takes so much of an attitude.
You will not gain patience just by saying its a
virtue.Experience will teach you instead.
~excerpt from my public diary
seventeen day of may twenty thirteen
